What is Big Gay Family Social Program?
Big Gay Family gives you everything you need to create the best relationships of your life. You get monthly introductions to educated gay men, step-by-step guidance for how to connect to them, and protection from toxic situations that create hurt and disappointment.
Instead of random interactions, you get a step-by-step process that creates movement of intimacy so that you feel closeness instead of drifting apart.
What is different about Big Gay Family?
Big Gay Family is the only gay dating platform in the world that offers accountability, communication principles and a comprehensive dating strategy. Our members review each other every 30 days and all dating happens in three stages so that mistakes are avoided and everyone is connecting for long-term relationships.
Why are relationships difficult today?
The world has changed radically over the past 10 years. Hookup apps have replaced long-held social norms and are accelerating the Trauma-Cycle.
Today, gay men experience 100's of negative social cues every month including shaming, rejection, objectification, devaluation, disrespect, and ambivalence.
Every hurt is acted out unconsciously as a method for self-awareness and as a process of healing. This is how everyone ends up hurting everyone else even though the initial intention is to love and to date.
This Trauma-Cycle is why relationships today are so difficult. No matter who you meet and how much you initially like each other, it's just a matter of one trigger that creates a walk-away or loss of interest and you are back to the beginning, only this time with more hurt and anxiety.