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BGF Connection Points
Connection Points help BGF members recognize care, sincerity, communication, spiritual alignment, and repair capacity during each introduction. You may give Love Points to acknowledge appreciation, consistency, emotional presence, follow-through, and positive relational effort. You may give Spirit Points to recognize sincerity, reverence, emotional depth, values alignment, and respect for the spirit of UDP. You may give Repair Points when something needs attention, clarification, accountability, or repair. Repair Points are a structured way to name what needs repair instead of disappearing, withdrawing, silently judging, or walking away. Each member may give up to 100 Love Points, 100 Spirit Points, and 100 Repair Points, for a total of 300 Connection Points per introduction. All points are added together to create the Participation Score.
About Your Introduction:
Are you Leader or Participant?
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Leader
Participant
Leader's First Name:
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Leader's Email
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Participant's First Name
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Participant's Email
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Choose Option
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Love Points
Spirit Points
Repair Points
You may give Connection Points more than once during the introduction. Each member may give up to 100 Love Points, 100 Spirit Points, and 100 Repair Points, for a total of 300 Connection Points per introduction. All points are added together to create the Participation Score.Start small and let the points grow naturally. Use Love Points to acknowledge care, consistency, communication, emotional presence, and trust-building effort. Use Spirit Points to recognize sincerity, reverence, emotional depth, values alignment, and respect for the spirit of UDP. Use Repair Points to name what needs attention, clarification, accountability, or repair so the connection can stay honest instead of slipping into silence, resentment, withdrawal, or disappearance.
Spirit Points
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You may give up to 100 Spirit Points during the introduction, with a maximum of 20 Spirit Points per submission.
Spirit Recognition Categories
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You showed sincerity.
You honored the spirit of UDP.
You treated the introduction as meaningful.
You brought emotional depth.
You practiced truthfulness.
You showed reverence for the process.
You respected the sacredness of the connection.
You demonstrated emotional maturity.
You stayed connected to higher values.
You communicated with humility.
You brought integrity to the process.
You showed care beyond surface interaction.
You respected the purpose of BGF.
You honored vulnerability.
You practiced self-awareness.
You listened with presence.
You showed steadiness during the process.
You respected the emotional container.
You helped elevate the introduction.
You showed willingness to grow.
You approached the connection with seriousness.
You showed relational consciousness.
You brought warmth without pressure.
You respected the pace of the process.
You showed spiritual maturity.
Please include a message / explanation:
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Please share the spiritual message you'd like to include with the Spirit Points.
Love Points
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You may give up to 100 Love Points during the introduction, with a maximum of 20 Love Points per submission.
What would you like to acknowledge?
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You stayed instead of withdrawing.
You communicated with clarity.
You followed through.
You respected the pace.
You showed emotional presence.
You helped build trust.
You participated in Bridge.
You continued into Extensions.
You approached Agreements seriously.
You honored the UDP structure.
You completed a BGF step.
You showed up prepared.
You joined the workshop process.
You reflected on your needs.
You practiced conflict readiness.
You repaired after tension.
You offered a real apology.
You joined Relationship Express.
You honored Sacred Self work.
You protected the connection.
Select all that apply.
Please include a message / explanation:
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Please share a positive message and why you are offering love points. The more you write the better.
Perfection is not the goal of UDP. Participation, honesty, spiritual alignment, and repair capacity are the goals. Connection Points help both men practice appreciation, recognition, and honest feedback throughout the introduction. Love Points acknowledge what strengthened the connection. Spirit Points recognize sincerity, reverence, emotional depth, values alignment, and respect for the spirit of UDP. Repair Points name what needs attention, clarification, accountability, or repair.The purpose is to make appreciation and feedback normal, structured, and usable instead of hidden, delayed, or expressed through silence, resentment, withdrawal, or disappearance. All points are added together to create the Participation Score because love, spirit, and repair are all part of building a more conscious connection.
Repair Points
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You may give up to 100 Repair Points during the introduction, with a maximum of 20 Repair Points per submission.
What needs growth or repair?
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More presence is needed.
More clarity is needed.
Follow-through needs attention.
Pacing needs adjustment.
Emotional availability needs growth.
Trust needs rebuilding.
Bridge needs more presence.
Extensions need more effort.
Agreements need more seriousness.
UDP structure needs more attention.
A BGF step needs completion.
More preparation is needed.
Workshop participation needs attention.
Needs reflection needs more depth.
Conflict readiness needs practice.
Repair is still needed.
An apology would help.
Relationship Express needs more effort.
Sacred Self work needs more reverence.
The connection needs more care.
Select all that apply.
Please include a message / explanation:
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Please share the reason for repair points so that he can learn to receive feedback without fear and shame. The more you write the better.
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