Connection Points help both men practice appreciation, recognition, accountability, spiritual alignment, and repair capacity throughout the introduction. This form allows you to give Love Points for what strengthened the connection, Spirit Points for what showed sincerity or deeper alignment, and Repair Points for what needs attention, clarification, accountability, or repair. You may submit points more than once during the introduction. Each member may give up to 100 Love Points, 100 Spirit Points, and 100 Repair Points, for a total of 300 Connection Points.

Use Love Points to acknowledge meaningful effort, emotional presence, clear communication, follow-through, participation in BGF tools, care after tension, and respect for the UDP process. Appreciation helps the other person know what felt valuable, trustworthy, and connection-building.

Use Spirit Points to recognize sincerity, reverence, emotional depth, values alignment, spiritual maturity, humility, and respect for the deeper purpose of UDP.

Use Repair Points carefully and honestly. They are not meant to punish, shame, reject, or create distance. They are a structured way to name what needs care, clarification, accountability, or repair instead of allowing silence, resentment, withdrawal, or disappearance to take over.

Perfection is not the goal of UDP. Participation, honesty, spiritual alignment, and repair capacity are the goals. Use this form with maturity, care, and sincerity so the introduction can become more clear, honest, emotionally responsible, and repair-capable.