About Big Gay Family

Big Gay Family started in 2010 as a matchmaking service and since then evolved into a social program with hundreds of members and a comprehensive dating strategy for friendships and relationships.

The program is a direct response to the frustrations during dating and meeting men.

Grindr, OkCupid, Match.com, and other services do not protect you from men who are operating from their "wounded selves" and who don't know how to communicate, how to date, and how to treat you with respect.

Also, many men who participate in online dating are closeted, bi-sexual, and on the "down low". To them, you are a sex object, not a real person.

Today, more than ever, you need a safe, protected, and loving container for friendships and relationships.

Distancing yourself from the toxic experiences of gay dating is the first step in rebuilding your life so that you can spend your energies on real new possibilities instead of on the emotional drama(s) of dating.

Our 3-Step Dating Strategy

When you meet gay men inside Big Gay Family, you go through three stages: Connection, Familiarity & Commitment (CFC). Each stage brings you closer together until you become friends & lovers.