Big Gay Family

Commitment Based
Gay Social Program

Please fill out this short questionnaire to speak to us about joining our community and meeting our members.

Profile 2023

Step 1: Your Goal

Are you genuinely interested in joining a community of gay men for friendships and relationships?

About Big Gay Family

Big Gay Family started in 2010 as a matchmaking service and since then evolved into a social program with 100's of members and a comprehensive dating strategy for friendships and relationships.

The program is a direct response to the frustrations during dating and meeting men.  

Grindr, okCupid, and other services do not protect you from men who are operating from their "wounded selves" and who don't really know how to communicate, how to date, how to treat you with respect.

Also, many men who participate in online dating are closeted, bi-sexual, and on the "down-low". To them, you are a sex object, not a real person. 

Today, more than ever, you need a safe, protected and loving container for friendships and relationships. 

Distancing yourself from the toxic experiences of gay dating is the first step in re-building your life so that you can spend your energies on real new possibilities instead of on the emotional drama(s) of dating.