9 Sessions + 14 Videos + Workbooks + Visualizations
Discover a faster way to meet your Perfect Husband (the ideal man) and settle down into a committed relationship. And - you don’t need to take 10-20 years of trial and error to find your Perfect Husband. You only need a few hours inside this training to discover who he is, where to meet him and how to connect with him.
Inside the training, you get exercises to clarify the traits of your Perfect Husband so that you focus exclusively on the men you want to meet instead of spending time with everyone and going nowhere. A few hours of training saves you years of frustrations!
You will learn about a powerful mental exercise that gives you an instant insight into the deepest and unconscious motivations of your lover so that you always know how to solve conflicts and bring the relationships back on track.
You will learn about how to adjust your dating strategy so that he is receptive and interested.
You will get examples for how to think strategically about dating so that you can meet Your Perfect Husband within a few months and create a solid foundation for the new relationship.
This training teaches you how to validate “your man” for his inner motivations and assumptions so that he feels understood and wants to be with you all the time.
Each video session teaches you new ways of thinking about meeting men so that you are no longer confused about how to date, how to connect and how to keep the relationship alive.
Ideas and frameworks inside this training come after 10,000+ hours of research into the area of gay dating and relationships. Many of the ideas from this training have been used and tested by Paul inside his relationship with Frank to turn a difficult relationship into a future marriage. After 8 years, these ideas continue to work for Paul & Frank and keep the relationship strong.
Instead of spending years researching on your own, you can instantly use the techniques and frameworks given to you inside the training and get immediate positive results within a few months.
- Session One - His Body Traits: In this session, you will clarify the body traits of your ideal lover and divide them into three categories: must-haves, bonus and deal-breakers. You will become aware of your attraction so that it helps you connect to a wider range of men as opposed to keeping you focused on body traits that are RARE to find. You will define your future husband's physical traits so that you can train your mind to focus on the type of man you want to meet instead of everyone who passes you by. When you divide your physical traits into three categories you will become more flexible in your physical evaluations of your dates and lovers. This way, you don't let trivial preferences sabotage a possible lifelong relationship and marriage.
- Session Two - His Sociodemographic Traits: In this session you will define the sociodemographic traits of your ideal lover so that you can understand him as a person. This session helps you align your communication so that you can get his attention easily and so that you can relate to him better and get 2nd and 3rd dates.
- Session Three - Alignment Towards Stability: In this session you will align your definition of your Perfect Husband towards stability. The alignment towards stability will help you reorient your choices for partners towards those who are stable and ready for serious relationships instead of those who are driven by sex and fun. This is how the "TOGETHER FOREVER" becomes possible. Marriage and serious relationships require stability for both partners, otherwise the conflicts and the tensions in the relationship will make it difficult to establish trust and authentic intimacy.
- Session Four - Magical First Impressions: In this session you will learn about the power of Magical First Impressions. Relationships exist exclusively in the domain of emotions and psychology. Cultivating magical first impressions is key to having a relationship that can blossom into marriage. You will describe the perfect first impression that you want to experience when you meet your husband and challenge yourself to only meet men inside places that offer magical first impressions.
- Session Five - Visualization Of Caring & Love: In this session you will be doing a visualization. I will ask you to visualize the moments of caring, love and adventure with your future husband and then take that image and place it inside an object in your immediate environment. Why? So that each time you pass by it - you are reminded about the value of a stable and loving marriage. You are opening up your consciousness to a bigger and greater experience of togetherness, unity and love. This visualization awakens the motivation to pursue only those relationships that bring you authentic experience of love and caring.
- Session Six - Value Proposition: In this session you will get a COMPLETE STRATEGY for connecting successfully with anyone you meet - you will learn how to think about dating so that you succeed every time and how to connect to every man you meet easily and without rejections. This strategy is based on a concept of "Value Proposition". This is the most important session of the course. You will create a value proposition that is based on TANGIBLE and INTANGIBLE value based on his fears, frustrations, desires & fantasies. You will use that information inside conversations and during dating to establish immediate connection, show your value to his life and make him FALL IN LOVE with you quickly.
- Session Seven - Where To Meet Him: In this session you will get a list of the best 21 places for meeting your future husband/lover and you will choose to attend the ones that happen near you. Most gay men are reactive and impulsive about choosing places to meet men. Instead, you want to be proactive and plan out your social events for biggest impact. Instead of using hookup websites or online dating websites you want to meet men in REAL places where you can talk to them directly and see them.
- Session Eight - Your Relationship Narrative: In this session you will create your RELATIONSHIP NARRATIVE so that you can remove all distractions, all temptations and detours from your current social activities and focus on the creation of the relationship of your dreams. We are using a technique of storytelling so that your mind is filled with images of you being together and so that any resistance is cleared up and melted down. Some people find out that when they are asked to talk about their future marriage - they feel uncomfortable and strange. This is why we want to bring those emotions to the surface so that you feel fully congruent with your desire to settle down and get married.
- Session Nine - 3-Month Plan: In this session you will put together a 3-Month Plan for your social transformation including 6 places that you will go to to meet men and practice the strategies and ideas you have learned in this course.