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Never again worry about being single, alone or disconnected!
Meet high quality men without hassles, delays and frustrations!

Never again worry about being single, alone or disconnected!
Meet high quality men without hassles, delays and frustrations!


Inside The Program:

  • Get Monthly Introductions

    Get 2 monthly introductions so you are NEVER ALONE and always making new friends and building new relationships.

  • Avoid Years Of Struggles

    Avoid years of struggles when you meet men inside a private social program.  Remove all risk and frustrations from meeting men.

  • Meet Gay Professionals

    Meet educated men who are are ready for a relationship and excited to meet you. No more texting, games and delays.

  • Get World-Class Training

    Avoid years of mistakes when you rely on science and best practices about how to make relationships last forever.


Hi, I am Paul Angelo,

And I have a question for you…

How much more exciting would your life feel like

If you could make new friends easily?

If you could meet your future lover quickly without frustrations & negativity?

What if most of your relationship struggles COULD be easily solved?

And being single and worrying about ending up alone would be a “a thing of the past”…

Ever since I have become a relationship coach in 2010, I became obsessed about finding the ultimate solution to our relationship challenges.

And today, after years of testing new ideas and 1,000’s of hours of coaching sessions – I have found the magic formula that makes virtually all your relationship goals possible.

Let me share with you the secret…

Just like an iPhone can be upgraded every year and technology keeps advancing forward…

We can also IMPROVE the ways we meet, connect, and fall in love with each other so that with GREAT CERTAINTY we can promise relationship success for most gay men…

That through SOCIAL INNOVATION – we can radically improve the quality of your interactions and with that – help everyone INSTANTLY enter into the deeper waters of friendships and relationships.

As an example - we can combine monthly introductions with video training that keeps everyone happily involved, connected and excited about meeting new men and learning about each other.

And what if, on top of that, we keep everyone SAFE inside a “Gated Community” space so that all negativity, dishonesty and frustrations that happen in the PUBLIC SPACE are eliminated and ALL MEMBERS experience positive and upbeat interactions?

And lastly, what if we could offer events and trips to make everyone feel like they are part of a real community...

This is how we created the Big Gay Family Social Program.  It is the outcome of years of improvements so that you have the CUTTING EDGE solution that makes relationship worries a thing of the past.

Psychologists agree that the most important ingredient in relationships is TRUST.  Without trust, people hold back and authentic connections are impossible.  To help members create trust-based relationships, Big Gay Family now offers Relationship Journeys as a replacement to the old way of meeting men.

And there is so much more I want to tell you, so please watch the video and read the details on this page and join us.

Big Gay Family Social Program gives you everything you need, saves you years of frustrations and helps you create the relationships you always wanted.

Whatever you do, do yourself this extraordinary favor today: SIGNUP. If you don't love it, ask for a refund.

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Join the ALL NEW 2019 Big Gay Family Social Program
and never again worry about being single, alone or depressed.

Meet men inside Relationship Journeys and transform your
social experience into the biggest adventure of your life.

The program also gives you access to educated gay professionals
who are looking for a more authentic experience of relationships.

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      What You Get...

      1. Get 2 Introductions Every Month, 24 Per Year. (Value: $2,997)

      Get 2 introductions every month so you are always meeting new men and creating new relationships.  No more delays, texting and rejections.  Meet men who want to meet you and get to know you across many weeks.  Instead of quick introductions, you spend a minimum of 3 interactions with everyone you meet in the program.  You will meet educated men who are looking for a higher quality social experience.  You will meet men who work in: law, healthcare, education,  business, architecture, art and social sciences.

      2. (BRAND NEW) Trust & Connect Relationship Journeys (Value: $997)

      Leave behind all frustrations related to connecting with men, getting to know them and building relationships with them.  Never again worry about saying the wrong thing or making mistakes during dating.

      A Relationship Journey is a series of conversations that have been designed by experts to help you establish a connection that is REAL and has a chance to grow into a long term relationship.  Inside Relationship Journeys you get a deeper and more structured experience of getting to know other men.  Relationship Journeys give you a RARE opportunity for self-expression and emotional growth that bring confidence and faith in love, relationships and marriage.

      3. Relationship Strategy Courses: (Value: $1,497)

      Get the latest tools to make relationships work for the rest of your life and never struggle in dating again.  Get high quality training about relationship strategy that shows you step-by-step how to make your relationships work this time.  Discover best-practices for meeting men and connecting with them.

      Discover where to meet your ideal lover, how to connect with him during dating and how to create a committed relationship with him.  Get frameworks, examples, stories, workbooks, spreadsheets and hours of training that teach you a powerful strategy that has been taught to 1,000's of gay men across 8 years and produced countless relationships and marriages. Also, the strategies taught in the programs come after 8 years of coaching and 1,000's of hours of research in the area of gay psychology.

      NEW BONUSES FOR JOINING NOW!

      BONUS #1 ($997 Value!)

      9-Week Advanced Course On Sexuality Called "EVOLUTION"

      Don't let sexual issues be the reason why you can't meet the love of your life and get married.

      Imagine what would happen to your love life if SEX never stood in the way of connecting to men?  Imagine how much longer your relationships would last if you knew how to understand your sexual impulses and talk about them with your lover.

      Don't be that guy who lets SEX ISSUES destroy good relationships.  Instead, discover how to have the best sex of your life without hurting your relationship.

      You will learn how to create monogamy and sexual commitment with your partner or husband.

      You will learn how to create sexual chemistry, regardless of your previous experience and confidence levels.

      You will know how to solve sex-related issues so that your relationship is always on track and in "good" standing.

      You will learn how to prevent cheating and SEX LIES from happening in the first place so that you always TRUST your partner and love him forever.

      BONUS #2 ($1,997 Value!)

      ADVANCED Relationship Journeys

      Replace years of surface-level interactions with deep and meaningful conversations that make you feel alive.  Engage men with topics that provoke thinking, invite creativity and demonstrate passion.  Create relationships that are based on real substance and depth.

      DIVINITY JOURNEY:

      Spiritual connections are the most powerful connections of all.  You will experience deep and meaningful sharing that opens up your mind, heart and spirit to a new level of relatedness.  Create relationships that last forever when you bring in deeper, meaningful discussions about life, existence and the meaning of love.

      EVOLUTION JOURNEY:

      Experience open conversations about sexuality, your sexual desires, fantasies and habits.  Heal yourself from sexual shame.  Discuss topics that give you a deeper understanding of your sexual needs and experiences.

      MY MARRIAGE JOURNEY:

      Gay men rarely discuss their marriage with each other and this creates a big mental barrier between where they are and where they need to be to become ready for marriage. This relationship journey gives you an opportunity to discuss your ideal marriage so that you plant seeds for deeper understanding of what your perfect marriage looks like including issues of trust, commitment, responsibility and family.

      MY BIGGEST ADVENTURE JOURNEY:

      This journey gives you a chance to share with others ideas about your biggest life's adventures so that you communicate your passion, share your deep desires and come across as an exciting person others want to be around. Whether you want to climb Mount Everest or swim across the the Atlantic Ocean - when you share your biggest adventures your connections to other men take on a new meaning and depth.

      BONUS #3 ($2,497 Value!)

      12 Month LIFE Accelerator Program

      Get expert training that teaches you how to accelerate progress in your life so that you get things done faster, build confidence and create momentum.  You get a total of 12 Training Videos, delivered to you every month, teaching you powerful strategies for setting up your days, becoming productive, building life-long relationships, eating healthy, exercising regularly and overcoming your insecurities.

      Life Accelerator program gives you expert-coaching every month so that you are never alone in your pursuits of happiness, love and success.

      How Do The Relationship Journeys Work?

      Everyone wants relationships and love, but very few men know how to create experiences of closeness and relatedness that move the relationship to the next stage. And imagine what would happen if within only a few months you could connect to another man in a way that typically takes 3-5 years?

      Is this possible?  Yes, with the use of Relationship Journeys!

      Relationship Journeys are a shortcut to faster and deeper connections.  It's like taking an Express Lane instead of being stuck on the slow lane and getting disappointed.

      By using Relationship Journeys you are guaranteed an extraordinary experience of relatedness that can NEVER go wrong. It is a bulletproof way of establishing exciting moments with another man.

      When you join The Program today, you'll get access to Relationship Journeys designed to create trust and build a connection.  As a SPECIAL BONUS, you also receive four Advanced Journeys which give you access to sophistication and depth when you meet men in the program.

      "WHO AM I" JOURNEY

      This journey is the first journey everyone takes.  It includes 5 interactions and it is designed to help you connect deeply with the men inside the program.  You will pick 5 topics from a list and discuss those topics during each conversation.  By the time you complete this Journey, you feel connected and ready to choose the path of friendship or relationship.

      "OUR DESTINY" JOURNEY

      This Journey is all about clarity and it solves a common issue related to rejection and abandonment.  It involves 3 interactions and it is designed to help each person choose the path of friendship or romantic relationship in a natural and positive way.  You share the photos and you discuss your ideas of a friend or a lover and you agree on the next step.

      ADVANCED JOURNEYS:

      "DIVINITY" JOURNEY:

      Spiritual connections are the most powerful connections of all.  You will experience deep and meaningful sharing that opens up your mind, heart and spirit to a new level of relatedness.  Create relationships that last forever when you bring in deeper, meaningful discussions about life, existence and the meaning of love.

      "EVOLUTION" JOURNEY:

      Most gay men are held back by sex because sex has power over them. This journey takes the power away from sex so that you can choose partners that bring stability to your life instead of risk and abandonment.  Experience open conversations about your sexual desires, fantasies and habits.  Heal yourself from sexual shame and remove obstacles to relationships that originate in unresolved issues with sex.

      "MY MARRIAGE" JOURNEY:

      All straight men and women talk and think about marriage all the time, getting their minds ready for a long-term relationships.  Gay men rarely discuss their marriage with each other and this creates a big mental barrier between where they are and where they need to be to become ready for marriage.  This relationship journey gives you an opportunity to discuss your ideal marriage so that you plant seeds for deeper understanding of what your perfect marriage looks like including issues of trust, commitment, responsibility and family.

      "MY BIGGEST ADVENTURE" JOURNEY:

      This journey gives you a chance to share with others ideas about your biggest life's adventures so that you communicate your passion, share your deep desires and come across as an exciting person others want to be around.  Whether you want to climb Mount Everest or swim across the the Atlantic Ocean - when you share your biggest adventures your connections to other men take on a new meaning and depth.

      Relationship Journeys allow you to maximize your social experience. When romantic interest is absent, you connect for a friendship.  Your involvement in the program ALWAYS works for you - either a friend, lover or an activity partner.

      What is inside the 3 Video Courses Included In Your Membership?

      When you join Big Gay Family Social Program today, you'll get 3 world-class, video-based training courses. Each course opens up at monthly intervals.  The first course opens up immediately, the second one 30 days after and so on.

      "Evolution", the advanced course about sexuality opens up after 3 months.

      All courses gives you access to workbooks, videos, instructions and exercises that give you the CONFIDENCE to succeed in relationships for the rest of your life.  I have tested and updated all courses to address CURRENT issues in relationships in the gay culture.

      These courses are available EXCLUSIVELY for our members!

      Course #1: Your Perfect Husband

      9 Sessions + 14 Videos + Workbooks + Visualizations

      Discover a faster way to meet your Perfect Husband (the ideal man) and settle down into a committed relationship.  And - you don’t need to take 10-20 years of trial and error to find your Perfect Husband. You only need a few hours inside this training to discover who he is, where to meet him and how to connect with him.

      Inside the training, you get exercises to clarify the traits of your Perfect Husband so that you focus exclusively on the men you want to meet instead of spending time with everyone and going nowhere.  A few hours of training saves you years of frustrations!

      You will learn about a powerful mental exercise that gives you an instant insight into the deepest and unconscious motivations of your lover so that you always know how to solve conflicts and bring the relationships back on track.

      You will learn about how to adjust your dating strategy so that he is receptive and interested.

      You will get examples for how to think strategically about dating so that you can meet Your Perfect Husband within a few months and create a solid foundation for the new relationship.

      This training teaches you how to validate “your man” for his inner motivations and assumptions so that he feels understood and wants to be with you all the time.

      Each video session teaches you new ways of thinking about meeting men so that you are no longer confused about how to date, how to connect and how to keep the relationship alive.

      Ideas and frameworks inside this training come after 10,000+ hours of research into the area of gay dating and relationships. Many of the ideas from this training have been used and tested by Paul inside his relationship with Frank to turn a difficult relationship into a future marriage. After 8 years, these ideas continue to work for Paul & Frank and keep the relationship strong.

      Instead of spending years researching on your own, you can instantly use the techniques and frameworks given to you inside the training and get immediate positive results within a few months.

      You'll learn:

      1. Session One - His Body Traits:  In this session, you will clarify the body traits of your ideal lover and divide them into three categories: must-haves, bonus and deal-breakers. You will become aware of your attraction so that it helps you connect to a wider range of men as opposed to keeping you focused on body traits that are RARE to find.  You will define your future husband's physical traits so that you can train your mind to focus on the type of man you want to meet instead of everyone who passes you by.  When you divide your physical traits into three categories you will become more flexible in your physical evaluations of your dates and lovers. This way, you don't let trivial preferences sabotage a possible lifelong relationship and marriage.
      2. Session Two - His Sociodemographic Traits: In this session you will define the sociodemographic traits of your ideal lover so that you can understand him as a person. This session helps you align your communication so that you can get his attention easily and so that you can relate to him better and get 2nd and 3rd dates.
      3. Session Three - Alignment Towards Stability: In this session you will align your definition of your Perfect Husband towards stability. The alignment towards stability will help you reorient your choices for partners towards those who are stable and ready for serious relationships instead of those who are driven by sex and fun. This is how the "TOGETHER FOREVER" becomes possible.  Marriage and serious relationships require stability for both partners, otherwise the conflicts and the tensions in the relationship will make it difficult to establish trust and authentic intimacy.
      4. Session Four - Magical First Impressions: In this session you will learn about the power of Magical First Impressions.  Relationships exist exclusively in the domain of emotions and psychology. Cultivating magical first impressions is key to having a relationship that can blossom into marriage. You will describe the perfect first impression that you want to experience when you meet your husband and challenge yourself to only meet men inside places that offer magical first impressions.
      5. Session Five - Visualization Of Caring & Love: In this session you will be doing a visualization.  I will ask you to visualize the moments of caring, love and adventure with your future husband and then take that image and place it inside an object in your immediate environment.  Why?  So that each time you pass by it - you are reminded about the value of a stable and loving marriage. You are opening up your consciousness to a bigger and greater experience of togetherness, unity and love.  This visualization awakens the motivation to pursue only those relationships that bring you authentic experience of love and caring.
      6. Session Six - Value Proposition:  In this session you will get a COMPLETE STRATEGY for connecting successfully with anyone you meet - you will learn how to think about dating so that you succeed every time and how to connect to every man you meet easily and without rejections.  This strategy is based on a concept of "Value Proposition". This is the most important session of the course. You will create a value proposition that is based on TANGIBLE and INTANGIBLE value based on his fears, frustrations, desires & fantasies. You will use that information inside conversations and during dating to establish immediate connection, show your value to his life and make him FALL IN LOVE with you quickly.
      7. Session Seven - Where To Meet Him: In this session you will get a list of the best 21 places for meeting your future husband/lover and you will choose to attend the ones that happen near you.  Most gay men are reactive and impulsive about choosing places to meet men.  Instead, you want to be proactive and plan out your social events for biggest impact.  Instead of using hookup websites or online dating websites you want to meet men in REAL places where you can talk to them directly and see them.
      8. Session Eight - Your Relationship Narrative: In this session you will create your RELATIONSHIP NARRATIVE so that you can remove all distractions, all temptations and detours from your current social activities and focus on the creation of the relationship of your dreams.  We are using a technique of storytelling so that your mind is filled with images of you being together and so that any resistance is cleared up and melted down.  Some people find out that when they are asked to talk about their future marriage - they feel uncomfortable and strange.  This is why we want to bring those emotions to the surface so that you feel fully congruent with your desire to settle down and get married.
      9. Session Nine - 3-Month Plan: In this session you will put together a 3-Month Plan for your social transformation including 6 places that you will go to to meet men and practice the strategies and ideas you have learned in this course.

      Course #2: Your Perfect Dating Sequence

      3 Video Sessions + Workbooks + Exercises

      Why Important:  Your first dates are the BIRTH or DEATH of a possible love affair, long-term relationship or marriage.  Those men who come prepared and have a strategy have a 90% higher chance of success than those who rely on serendipity and luck.

      Despite what we hear in movies and from love stories - successful dating starts with the understanding of human psychology and how emotional connections work.  This is how you go from dating nightmares into dating victories. And with this course you get step-by-step frameworks and best-practices that turn your dating into relationships.

      This course also gives you advanced strategies for how to build instant connections that become the foundations for AUTHENTIC relationships and marriage.  With this course you can replace mistakes with victories and create the relationship/marriage you always wanted.

      You'll learn:

      1. Session One - Six Laws Of Dating Success: In this session you will learn about the Six Laws of dating success that make your dating enjoyable and productive. When you follow the laws of dating success you will discover that meeting men is exciting, it feels good and you succeed faster than before because you NO LONGER make the mistakes that prevented you from getting 2nd and 3rd dates.
      2. Session Two - First Date Strategies: In this session you will learn about the NINE psychological strategies to help you connect deeply during FIRST DATES so that you don't make the mistake of hoping to connect and instead you MAKE THE CONNECTION happen EVERY SINGLE TIME.  The strategies you will learn in this session are ADVANCED tools for instant success during your first dates.  You will quickly see why your dating didn't work before and how to fix it.
      3. Session Three - Your Perfect Dating Sequence: In this session you will be putting together your PERFECT DATING SEQUENCE that ensures a beautiful and stable connection that leads to a BOYFRIEND type of a relationship within SIX DATES. These are advanced strategies that Paul has tested in his own relationship and with 100's of his clients across many years. They are proven to help you eliminate virtually all mistakes during dating and help you reach the RELATIONSHIP STAGE within 30 days.

      Course #3: Gay Compatibility Formula

      26 Video Sessions + 4 Workbooks + 1 Excel Spreadsheet

      Why Important:  Most breakups happen because gay men meet incompatible men or choose partners who are NOT READY for relationships.  But today, you can discover a smarter way of choosing your lovers so that your relationships last forever.

      Gay Compatibility Formula is an advanced training that teaches you how to look for men who are compatible with your psychology and life’s journey so that you ensure long term commitment and marriage. Understanding gay compatibility is the fastest way to make a marriage work and to avoid frustrations in gay relationships.

      Compatibility is the science behind the experience of chemistry and magnetism inside relationships.  When you have a connection that is based on compatibility, the relationship lasts a lifetime.

      Without compatibility most relationships struggle to take off and result in breakups. Discovering the traits of your compatible partner is the first step in creating long-term relationships that turn into marriage.

      You'll learn:

      1. You will discover the psychological foundations for compatibility:  Pain Of Presence, Pain Of Absence, Theory Of Attachment, Sexual Completion, Development Of Masculinity, Coming Out and Childhood Wounds.
      2. How to create magical chemistry in your relationships so that they last forever. You will understand why men who are different than you are the ones most compatible with you.  You will recognize that when you have a conflict with someone - it means you are compatible and you need to work things out.
      3. You will get examples of compatibility inside a PowerPoint presentation with diagrams, explanations and instructions for how to apply the formula to your relationships and avoid years of relationship frustrations.
      4. You will learn about the Relationship Dance - an advanced concept in understanding the big picture behind all relationships - dependence, independence and interdependence and how compatibility moves through these stages of relatedness.
      5. You will discover how physical, emotional, and logical compatibility works.   You will also learn about The Standard - a level of quality for all relationships that HAS TO BE MET, without which compatibility no longer works.  You will see how to reach The Standard so that your relationships stay on course.

      BOTTOM LINE: 

      When you combine video training with lots of interactions inside the program, you will see IMMEDIATE spike in confidence, self-esteem and self-worth.

      Before Big Gay Family, you had to spend many years cultivating trusting relationships, but today you can quickly rebuild your social life and enjoy new friendships and relationships.

      NOW IT'S YOUR TURN. PICK YOUR PLAN AND START TODAY!

      Join Big Gay Family right now and you get:

      24 Introductions To Gay Professionals Waiting To Connect With You NOW!

      Trust & Connect Relationship Journeys

      3 Video Based Courses About Relationship Strategy

      "EVOLUTION" Video Training About Gay Sexuality

      4 Advanced Relationship Journeys For Relationship Exploration

      12 Month Life Accelerator Program To Cultivate Empowering Habits

      Total Value: $10,982

      Instead of paying $10,982 you only pay:

      3 Payments

      1 Year Program Subscription

      $3673 Monthly Payments
      Start Now

        1 Payment

        1 Year Program Subscription

        $997(SAVE $104)
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          30-Day Money Back Guarantee

          If for whatever reason you feel this is not the best
          program in the world, just ask for a refund and we
          will gladly return your investment.


          What People Are Saying:

          Never again worry about being single, alone or disconnected!
          Join the family... a social program that will change your life!


          Gay Matchmaking Since 2010. Over 10,000 Hours Of Experience.

          Paul's methodology made a big difference.
          - John 

          I recommend Big Gay Family to everyone.
          - Omar

          You will save lots of time and avoid frustrations.
          - Frank

          Learning is key to success in relationships.
          - Duane

          You can create the relationship you want!
          - Eric

          You can spend 10 years of your life experimenting with your relationships, and still end up nowhere... or let The Program save you time and hassle!

          Big Gay Family Social Program gives you everything you need to meet your future lover and make new friends: access to amazing men, a new pathway for getting to know each other and world-class video training.  This is how we believe this program will work for you.  Just signup now and let the program give you everything you need to instantly get connected and never be alone again. Sign up today and you'll get ALL of Paul's best start-from-scratch, step-by-step relationship strategies so that you can meet your future husband, make lots of new friends and start enjoying your life again!

          Just start now and test it out.
          If it's not for you, ask for a refund.


          Total Value: $10,982

          Instead of paying $10,982 you only pay:

          3 Payments

          1 Year Program Subscription

          $3673 Monthly Payments
          Start Now

            1 Payment

            1 Year Program Subscription

            $997(SAVE $104)
            Start Now

              Guarantee Box icon-style-23

              30-Day Money Back Guarantee

              If for whatever reason you feel this is not the best
              program in the world, just ask for a refund and we
              will gladly return your investment.