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Avoid Years Of Dating Frustrations!

Never again worry about being single, alone or disconnected!
Join the family... a social program that will change your life!

Inside Big Gay Family Social Program:

  • Get Monthly Introductions

    Get 2 monthly introductions so you are NEVER ALONE and always making new friends and building new relationships.

  • Get 10+ Hours Of Talk-Time

    Enjoy 10+ hours of conversations with other members monthly – giving you a consistent feeling of warmth and connectedness.

  • Meet Gay Professionals

    Meet educated men who are are ready for a relationship and excited to meet you. No more texting, games and delays.

  • Bring Stability To Your Life

    Bring optimism and stability to your social life by removing negativity and frustrations from meeting men.

Hi, I am Paul Angelo,

And I have a question for you…

How much more exciting would your life feel like

If you could make new friends easily?

If you could meet your future lover quickly without frustrations & negativity?

What if most of your relationship struggles COULD be easily solved?

And being single and worrying about ending up alone would be a “a thing of the past”…

Ever since I have become a relationship coach in 2010, I became obsessed about finding the ultimate solution to our relationship challenges.

And today, after years of testing new ideas and 1,000’s of hours of coaching sessions – I have found the magic formula that makes virtually all your relationship goals possible.

Let me share with you the secret…

Just like an iPhone can be upgraded every year and technology keeps advancing forward…

We can also IMPROVE the ways we meet, connect, and fall in love with each other so that with GREAT CERTAINTY we can promise relationship success for most gay men…

That through SOCIAL INNOVATION – we can radically improve the quality of your interactions and with that – help everyone INSTANTLY enter into the deeper waters of friendships and relationships.

As an example - we can combine monthly introductions with video training and a mentorship program that keeps everyone happily involved, connected and excited about meeting new men and learning about each other.

And what if, on top of that, we keep everyone SAFE inside a “Gated Community” space so that all negativity, dishonesty and frustrations that happen in the PUBLIC SPACE are eliminated and ALL MEMBERS experience positive and upbeat interactions?

And lastly, what if we could offer events and trips to make everyone feel like they are part of a real community...

This is how we created the Big Gay Family Social Program.  It is the outcome of years of improvements so that you have the CUTTING EDGE solution that makes relationship worries a thing of the past.

Psychologists agree that the most important ingredient in relationships is TRUST.  Without trust, people hold back and authentic connections are impossible.  To help members create trust-based relationships, Big Gay Family now offers Relationship Journeys as a replacement to the old way of meeting men.

And there is so much more I want to tell you, so please watch the video and read the details on this page and join us.

Big Gay Family Social Program gives you everything you need, saves you years of frustrations and helps you create the relationships you always wanted.

Whatever you do, do yourself this extraordinary favor today: SIGNUP. If you don't love it, ask for a refund.

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Join the ALL NEW 2019 Big Gay Family Social Program
and never again worry about being single, alone or depressed.

Meet men inside Relationship Journeys and transform your
social experience into the biggest adventure of your life.

The program also gives you access to educated gay professionals
who are looking for a more authentic experience of relationships.

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      If for whatever reason you feel this is not the best
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      What You Get...

      1. You Get 2 Introductions Every Month, Total Of 24 Per Year. (Value: $2,997)

      Get 24 new chances for love and friendships inside a professionally managed, private Social Program.  Receive 2 introductions every month without delays, texting, games and frustrations.

      Meet honest and genuine men who have joined the program with an authentic intention to connect with others and build life-long relationships.  Our members are gay professionals who are employed, who invest in their growth, and who work in: law, healthcare, education, entrepreneurship, business, architecture, art and social sciences.

      2. (BRAND NEW) Access To 2 Relationship Journeys - "WHO AM I" and "OUR DESTINY"  (Value: $997)

      Discover a better and more adventurous way of meeting men.  Instead of anxious first dates, rejections and delays, we offer a better way.  Inside Big Gay Family Social Program you are never rejected, judged or disrespected - you build trust-based relationships from the start.  First, you talk via phone 3 times to find out how you feel about each other.  Once you feel good, you enter the Relationship Journey that involves 3-5 interactions that establish trust and emotional connection.

      Sharing photos is delayed until the completion of the Relationship Journey so that both men are not distracted by sexuality and attraction.  After you complete the Relationship Journey, you share the photo(s) and discuss the possibilities for friendship or romantic relationship.  Everyone loves this process because it recognizes your true personal needs, makes you feel understood and promotes an authentic decision to become friends or dates.

      3. (BRAND NEW) 3 Video Based Courses Teaching Relationship Strategy: "Your Perfect Husband", "Gay Compatibility Formula", "Your Perfect Dating Sequence".  (Value: $1,497)

      Become confident and competent about your PERSONAL LIFE.  Get the tools that every gay man needs to make relationships work for the rest of your life and never struggle in dating again.

      YOUR PERFECT HUSBAND training course teaches you step-by-step how to clarify the traits of your perfect husband and how to create stability and make it work with him.

      COMPATIBILITY FORMULA training course teaches you 9 dimensions of compatibility and how to choose partners that are more likely to STAY and LOVE YOU BACK instead of those that will WALK-AWAY at a sign of a small conflict and become strangers again.

      YOUR PERFECT DATING SEQUENCE course is all about strategy during dating to avoid mistakes and promote continuity.  You will be taught how to put together a sequence of 5 dates so that you connect easily and create a strong foundation for a relationship.


      BONUS #1 ($997 Value!)


      Advanced course on gay sexuality that frees gay men to explore sexuality without hurting their relationship!

      Don't let sexuality stand in the way of trusting and committed relationships.  Discover how to make sexuality your friend, your allay and your teacher.  Learn how to be sexually free without risk and how to use sexuality to build closeness and longevity.

      BONUS #2 ($1,997 Value!)

      ADVANCED Relationship Journeys


      Spiritual connections are the most powerful connections of all.  You will experience deep and meaningful sharing that opens up your mind, heart and spirit to a new level of relatedness.  Create relationships that last forever when you bring in deeper, meaningful discussions about life, existence and the meaning of love.


      Experience open conversations about sexuality, your sexual desires, fantasies and habits.  Heal yourself from sexual shame.  Discuss topics that give you a deeper understanding of your sexual needs and experiences.

      BONUS #3 ($2,497 Value!)


      Learn & grow with others inside the Big Gay Family Social Program's Mentorship Activities.  Get access to a mentorship program that helps you become healthier, more successful and more alive.  Discover ways to improve your MOST IMPORTANT (KEYSTONE) habits including exercise, eating, productivity, goal setting, spirituality and so much more.

      How Do The Relationship Journeys Work?

      Each Relationship Journey is a series of interactions around a specific topic that leads to a better quality connection.  When you join Big Gay Family Social Program today, you'll get  Relationship Journeys designed to create trust-based relationships.  As a SPECIAL BONUS, you also receive 2 PREMIUM JOURNEYS that focus on Spirituality and Sexuality - taking the interaction to a dream-like space of deeper sharing and acknowledgment.


      This journey is the first journey everyone takes.  It includes 5 interactions and it is designed to help you connect deeply with the men inside the program.  You will pick 5 topics from a list and discuss those topics during each conversation.  By the time you complete this Journey, you feel connected and ready to choose the path of friendship or relationship.


      This Journey is all about clarity and it solves a common issue related to rejection and abandonment.  It involves 3 interactions and it is designed to help each person choose the path of friendship or romantic relationship in a natural and positive way.  You share the photos and you discuss your ideas of a friend or a lover and you agree on the next step.



      Spiritual connections are the most powerful connections of all.  You will experience deep and meaningful sharing that opens up your mind, heart and spirit to a new level of relatedness.  Create relationships that last forever when you bring in deeper, meaningful discussions about life, existence and the meaning of love.


      Experience open conversations about sexuality, your sexual desires, fantasies and habits.  Heal yourself from sexual shame when you openly discussed topics related to gay sexuality and intimacy.

      Relationship Journeys allow you to maximize your social experience. When romantic interest is absent, you connect for a friendship.  Your involvement in the program ALWAYS works for you - either a friend, lover or an activity partner.

      What is inside the 3 Video Courses Included In Your Membership?

      When you join Big Gay Family Social Program today, you'll get 3 world-class, video-based training courses. Each course opens up at monthly intervals.  The first course opens up immediately, the second one 30 days after and so on.

      "Evolution", the advanced course about sexuality opens up after 3 months.

      All video training gives you access to workbooks, videos, instructions and exercises that give you the CONFIDENCE to succeed in relationships for the rest of your life.  I have tested and updated all courses to address CURRENT issues in relationships in the gay culture.

      These courses are available EXCLUSIVELY for our members!

      Course #1: Your Perfect Husband

      9 Sessions + 14 Videos + Workbooks + Visualizations + Deep Exercises Of Introspection

      Why Important:  Most gay men have never clarified the definition of their ideal lover so they don't know how to connect to him.  This course breaks down the definition of your lover into multiple sections:  body, demographics, his fears, his frustrations, his desires, his fantasies, value proposition.  And once you define those, you can create a congruent narrative about your future marriage.

      You'll learn:

      1. Session One - His Body Traits:  In this session, you will clarify the body traits of your ideal lover and divide them into three categories: must-haves, bonus and deal-breakers. You will become aware of your attraction so that it helps you connect to a wider range of men as opposed to keeping you focused on body traits that are RARE to find.  You will define your future husband's physical traits so that you can train your mind to focus on the type of man you want to meet instead of everyone who passes you by.  When you divide your physical traits into three categories you will become more flexible in your physical evaluations of your dates and lovers. This way, you don't let trivial preferences sabotage a possible lifelong relationship and marriage.
      2. Session Two - His Sociodemographic Traits: In this session you will define the sociodemographic traits of your ideal lover so that you can understand him as a person. This session helps you align your communication so that you can get his attention easily and so that you can relate to him better and get 2nd and 3rd dates.
      3. Session Three - Alignment Towards Stability: In this session you will align your definition of your Perfect Husband towards stability. The alignment towards stability will help you reorient your choices for partners towards those who are stable and ready for serious relationships instead of those who are driven by sex and fun. This is how the "TOGETHER FOREVER" becomes possible.  Marriage and serious relationships require stability for both partners, otherwise the conflicts and the tensions in the relationship will make it difficult to establish trust and authentic intimacy.
      4. Session Four - Magical First Impressions: In this session you will learn about the power of Magical First Impressions.  Relationships exist exclusively in the domain of emotions and psychology. Cultivating magical first impressions is key to having a relationship that can blossom into marriage. You will describe the perfect first impression that you want to experience when you meet your husband and challenge yourself to only meet men inside places that offer magical first impressions.
      5. Session Five - Visualization Of Caring & Love: In this session you will be doing a visualization.  I will ask you to visualize the moments of caring, love and adventure with your future husband and then take that image and place it inside an object in your immediate environment.  Why?  So that each time you pass by it - you are reminded about the value of a stable and loving marriage. You are opening up your consciousness to a bigger and greater experience of togetherness, unity and love.  This visualization awakens the motivation to pursue only those relationships that bring you authentic experience of love and caring.
      6. Session Six - Value Proposition:  In this session you will get a COMPLETE STRATEGY for connecting successfully with anyone you meet - you will learn how to think about dating so that you succeed every time and how to connect to every man you meet easily and without rejections.  This strategy is based on a concept of "Value Proposition". This is the most important session of the course. You will create a value proposition that is based on TANGIBLE and INTANGIBLE value based on his fears, frustrations, desires & fantasies. You will use that information inside conversations and during dating to establish immediate connection, show your value to his life and make him FALL IN LOVE with you quickly.
      7. Session Seven - Where To Meet Him: In this session you will get a list of the best 21 places for meeting your future husband/lover and you will choose to attend the ones that happen near you.  Most gay men are reactive and impulsive about choosing places to meet men.  Instead, you want to be proactive and plan out your social events for biggest impact.  Instead of using hookup websites or online dating websites you want to meet men in REAL places where you can talk to them directly and see them.
      8. Session Eight - Your Relationship Narrative: In this session you will create your RELATIONSHIP NARRATIVE so that you can remove all distractions, all temptations and detours from your current social activities and focus on the creation of the relationship of your dreams.  We are using a technique of storytelling so that your mind is filled with images of you being together and so that any resistance is cleared up and melted down.  Some people find out that when they are asked to talk about their future marriage - they feel uncomfortable and strange.  This is why we want to bring those emotions to the surface so that you feel fully congruent with your desire to settle down and get married.
      9. Session Nine - 3-Month Plan: In this session you will put together a 3-Month Plan for your social transformation including 6 places that you will go to to meet men and practice the strategies and ideas you have learned in this course.

      Course #2: Your Perfect Dating Sequence

      3 Video Sessions + Workbooks + Exercises

      Why Important:  Many gay men are reactive and impulsive about dating and meeting men. Instead of connecting easily and deeply during dating, they make mistakes and end up wasting years of life in reactive dating. This course will help you become proactive and take control of your relationship activities.

      You'll learn:

      1. Session One - Six Laws Of Dating Success: In this session you will learn about the Six Laws of dating success that make your dating enjoyable and productive. When you follow the laws of dating success you will discover that meeting men is exciting, it feels good and you succeed faster than before because you NO LONGER make the mistakes that prevented you from getting 2nd and 3rd dates.
      2. Session Two - First Date Strategies: In this session you will learn about the NINE psychological strategies to help you connect deeply during FIRST DATES so that you don't make the mistake of hoping to connect and instead you MAKE THE CONNECTION happen EVERY SINGLE TIME.  The strategies you will learn in this session are ADVANCED tools for instant success during your first dates.  You will quickly see why your dating didn't work before and how to fix it.
      3. Session Three - Your Perfect Dating Sequence: In this session you will be putting together your PERFECT DATING SEQUENCE that ensures a beautiful and stable connection that leads to a BOYFRIEND type of a relationship within SIX DATES. These are advanced strategies that Paul has tested in his own relationship and with 100's of his clients across many years. They are proven to help you eliminate virtually all mistakes during dating and help you go from a 1-Date to a RELATIONSHIP STATUS within 30 days.

      Course #3: Gay Compatibility Formula

      26 Video Sessions + 4 Workbooks + 1 Excel Spreadsheet

      Why Important:  Without understanding compatibility you may be spending most of your time with men who will end up leaving you, or whose company you will begin to hate and eventually you leave them.  Studying compatibility is the most effective way to avoid frustrations inside gay relationships.

      You'll learn:

      1. Section One: In this session you will get clearer about the psychological aspects of how compatibility works, including the following ideas:  2 Types Of Pain, Theory Of Attachment, Sexual Completion, 3 Basic Ingredients Of Compatibility, Development Of Masculinity, Deeper Aspects Of Coming Out and Childhood Wounds. You will see that to create chemistry inside a relationship, you will need to understand the basic psychology behind why and how gay men choose their partners and their internal motivations.
      2. Section Two: In this section you will learn about the Compatibility Formula inside a PowerPoint presentation with diagrams, explanations and instructions for how to apply the formula to your relationships and avoid years of relationship frustrations.
      3. Section Three: In this section you will discover how physical, emotional, and logical compatibility works.   You will also learn about The Standard - a level of quality for all relationships that HAS TO BE MET, without which compatibility no longer works.  You will see how to reach The Standard so that your relationships stay on course.


      When you combine video training with lots of interactions inside the program, you will see IMMEDIATE spike in confidence, self-esteem and self-worth.

      Before Big Gay Family, you had to spend many years cultivating trusting relationships, but today you can quickly rebuild your social life and enjoy new friendships and relationships.


      Join Big Gay Family right now and you get:

      24 Introductions To Gay Professionals Waiting To Connect With You NOW!

      2 Relationship Journeys For Clarity & Trusting Connections

      3 Video Based Courses About Relationship Strategy

      "EVOLUTION" Video Training About Gay Sexuality

      2 Advanced Relationship Journeys For Spiritual & Sexual Transformation

      Mentorship Program To Cultivate Empowering Habits

      Total Value: $10,385

      Instead of paying $10,385 you only pay:

      3 Payments

      1 Year Program Subscription

      $3673 Monthly Payments
      Start Now

        1 Payment

        1 Year Program Subscription

        $997(SAVE $104)
        Start Now

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          30-Day Money Back Guarantee

          If for whatever reason you feel this is not the best
          program in the world, just ask for a refund and we
          will gladly return your investment.

          What People Are Saying:

          Testimonials And Reviews

          Gay Matchmaking Since 2010. Over 8,000 Hours Of Experience.

          Paul's methodology made a big difference.
          - John 

          I recommend Paul's services to everyone.
          - Omar

          Paul will help you save lots of time.
          - Frank

          Education is critical for gay relationships.
          - Duane

          Relationships are about body/mind/emotions.
          - Eric

          You can spend 10 years of your life experimenting with your relationships,
          and still end up nowhere... or let Paul save you that time and hassle!

          Big Gay Family Social Program gives you everything you need to meet your future lover and make new friends: access to amazing men, a new pathway for getting to know each other and world-class video training.  This is how we believe this program will work for you.  Just signup now and let the program give you everything you need to instantly get connected and never be alone again. Sign up today and you'll get ALL of Paul's best start-from-scratch, step-by-step relationship strategies so that you can meet your future husband, make lots of new friends and start enjoying your life again!

          Just start now and test it out.
          If it's not for you, ask for a refund.

          Total Value: $10,385

          Instead of paying $10,385 you only pay:

          3 Payments

          1 Year Program Subscription

          $3673 Monthly Payments
          Start Now

            1 Payment

            1 Year Program Subscription

            $997(SAVE $104)
            Start Now

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              30-Day Money Back Guarantee

              If for whatever reason you feel this is not the best
              program in the world, just ask for a refund and we
              will gladly return your investment.

              Risk & Safety

              Inside Big Gay Family

              • 100% safe
              • No strangers & weirdos
              • No abusive behaviors
              • Protection from social misfits
              • Code of ethics

              Public Space

              • High risk - no supervision
              • Regular abandonment
              • Abusive language
              • Sex addicts pretending to seek love
              • Throw-away culture

              Quality Of Interactions

              Inside Big Gay Family

              • 3-12 interactions with each person
              • 1-3 months of interactions
              • Respectful and positive
              • Get acknowledged for who you are
              • Authentic and genuine conversations

              Public Space

              • Once, no second chances
              • Often negative and disrespecting
              • Surface level conversations, no depth
              • Texting, delays, dismissals
              • You are being treated like an object

              Trust-Based Vs. Sex-Based Approach

              Trust-Based (Big Gay Family)

              • Safe and friendly
              • Respectful and honest
              • Offers possibilities beyond love
              • Win-win every time
              • Emotionally rewarding
              • Psychologically healthy

              Sex-Based Approach

              • Involves strangers
              • Disrespectful and risky
              • Easily replaceable with someone "hotter"
              • Time consuming and addictive
              • Emotionally empty
              • You are being treated like an object