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No one set me aside while growing up and gave me any advice on how to approach gay relationships.
The culture of that time viewed gay relationships as purely sexual temporary encounters, or second-class relationships.
Paul’s courses and coaching helped me fully understand my past relationship struggles. He gave me a sense of confidence about my ability to develop a healthy gay relationship in the future.
It’s really important that you get outside of your comfort zone and meet other people. It’s important to be yourself and not to put up a front.
You don’t need to tell everything about your life, but at least be willing to open up to people and share something about yourself. I highly recommend you come join us.
Thank you for visiting Big Gay Family.
Your involvement in the Program matters. With each Introduction, you are co-creating a new Social Experience where gay men come together in a creative and futuristic way.
With Principles & Structure, we bring order to dating and relationships so that everyone succeeds.
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What is Big Gay Family Social Program?
Big Gay Family started in 2010 in Miami as a matchmaking service and since then evolved into a Social Program that gives you everything you need to meet men, create strong connections with them, and develop long-term relationships.
You get convenient access to men via monthly introductions. You get the methods for how to connect with them via video courses. You are also protected from situations that may result in hurt and trauma.
By joining Big Gay Family you are accomplishing a social transformation in 1 year that would take 20 years to happen without the Program.
What is different about Big Gay Family?
Inside Big Gay Family, gay men interact through a commitment-based dating system which includes three stages: the Bridge, Extensions and Social Contracts.
Instead of a random approach, you go through three Stages. Each stage is designed to guide your relationship from start to finish - from first contact to a committed relationship.
How do gay men meet inside Big Gay Family?
Inside Big Gay Family, we go beyond matchmaking - we give you the dating process to create a very powerful connection.
Once you receive your introduction, you are guided by our dating system about what to talk about and how to connect faster.
Who are Big Gay Family members?
Big Gay Family attracts gay men who value communication and openness. Below is the list of professions inside Big Gay Family.
Our members are are: Teachers, Nurses, Physicians, Realtors, Lawyers, Programmers, Managers, Business Owners, Coaches, Spiritual healers, Reiki healers, Day-traders, Musicians, Engineers, Artists.
The best quality men for relationships are those who are not held back by intimacy issues. Our members enjoy long conversations, lots of sharing and meeting new members every month.
Why are relationships difficult today?
The world has changed radically over the past 10 years. Hookup apps have replaced long-held social norms and are accelerating the Trauma-Cycle.
Today, gay men experience 100's of negative social cues every month including shaming, rejection, objectification, devaluation, disrespect, and ambivalence.
Every hurt is acted out unconsciously as a method for self-awareness and as a process of healing. This is how everyone ends up hurting everyone else even though the initial intention is to love and to date.
This Trauma Cycle is why relationships today are so difficult. No matter who you meet and how much you initially like each other, it's just a matter of one situation that creates a walk-away or loss of interest.