Big Gay Family

Commitment Based
Gay Social Program

Enrollment Is Open!

Enrollment is Open!  Special Offer: 2nd Year Is Free!

Your Dating Strategy For Success

Enrollment now open (limited time)
Get access to Big Gay Family Program!

Previous Video:

Now playing Video 2

Dating Strategy Inside Big Gay Family 2022

upcoming Videos:

Additional Resources

Enjoy the resources below. 

Loneliness & Poor Health

Research shows that loneliness doubles the risks for cancer, heart attacks and causes decline in health and quality of life. 

Matt's Story

I don't want to be spending time at bars and hookup apps.  I want to meet like minded gay professionals.  That's why I joined.

12 Reasons For Joining Today!

Don't miss out on the opportunity to meet gay men and connect with them.  You get everything you need to create the best relationships of your life.

1. Meet educated gay professionals who are ready to connect with you and talk with you.

2. Connect to gay men using a proven methodology that eliminates mistakes.

3. Get rid of Grindr, Scruff, Adam4Adam and all other apps and never go back.

4. Avoid emotional trauma when you meet toxic men who cheat, lie and disrespect you.

5. Connect to gay men spiritually and emotionally and bring positive feelings to your life again.

6. Create a powerful new beginning for each person you meet and make plans for long-term relationships and marriage.

7.  Get video training that teaches you everything you need to know about gay dating and relationships.

8. Watch your friends waste 100's of hours on Grindr while you are making life-long friendships and relationships in a few months.

9.  Bring focus and productivity back to your life by removing time waste from hookup apps and meeting men you never see again.

10. Become ready for marriage and create relationships that last a lifetime.

11.  Become the man you always wanted to become but were held back by emotional deprivation and relationship challenges.  

12. Bring back emotional stability to your life by having frequent conversations about topics that you care about.

From Paul Angelo:

Thank you for visiting Big Gay Family.  

Your involvement in the Program matters.  With each Introduction, you are co-creating a new Social Experience where gay men come together in a creative and futuristic way.

With Principles & Structure, we bring order to dating and relationships so that everyone succeeds. 

See you in the Program!
Paul Angelo

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Big Gay Family Social Program?

Big Gay Family started in 2010 in Miami as a matchmaking service and since then evolved into a Social Program that gives you everything you need to meet men, create strong connections with them, and develop long-term relationships.

You get convenient access to men via monthly introductions.  You get the methods for how to connect with them via video courses.  You are also protected from situations that may result in hurt and trauma.   

By joining Big Gay Family you are accomplishing a social transformation in 1 year that would take 20 years to happen without the Program.

What is different about Big Gay Family?

Inside Big Gay Family,  gay men interact through a commitment-based dating system which includes three stages:  the Bridge, Extensions and Social Contracts.  

Instead of a random approach,  you go through three Stages.  Each stage is designed to guide your relationship from start to finish - from first contact to a committed relationship.  

How do gay men meet inside Big Gay Family?

Inside Big Gay Family, we go beyond matchmaking - we give you the dating process to create a very powerful connection.

Once you receive your introduction, you are guided by our dating system about what to talk about and how to connect faster.  

Who are Big Gay Family members?

Big Gay Family attracts gay men who value communication and openness.  Below is the list of professions inside Big Gay Family.

Our members are are:  Teachers, Nurses, Physicians, Realtors, Lawyers, Programmers, Managers, Business Owners, Coaches, Spiritual healers,  Reiki healers, Day-traders, Musicians, Engineers, Artists.

The best quality men for relationships are those who are not held back by intimacy issues.  Our members enjoy long conversations, lots of sharing and meeting new members every month. 

Why are relationships difficult today?

The world has changed radically over the past 10 years. Hookup apps have replaced long-held social norms and are accelerating the Trauma-Cycle

Today, gay men experience 100's of negative social cues every month including shaming, rejection, objectification, devaluation, disrespect, and ambivalence.  

Every hurt is acted out unconsciously as a method for self-awareness and as a process of healing. This is how everyone ends up hurting everyone else even though the initial intention is to love and to date.  

This Trauma Cycle is why relationships today are so difficult. No matter who you meet and how much you initially like each other, it's just a matter of one situation that creates a walk-away or loss of interest. 

Big Gay Family

COmmitment based
gay Social Program

Subscribe for Video Series Updates During Enrollment With Big Gay Family

Enter your email below and we'll add you to our notifications list

We process your personal data as stated in our Privacy Policy. You may withdraw your consent at any time by clicking the unsubscribe link at the bottom of any of our emails.