Big Gay Family

Social Program

6 Month Relationship Plan

From Meeting To Moving In Together

6 Months - From Meeting To Moving In Together

Who + Where Is He
Approaching Him
Magical First Impression
First 6 Dates
Boyfriend Stage
Moving In Together

You can do all of this on your own or you can meet men through Big Gay Family and save lots of time time, hassles and frustrations.

You can click the link below to schedule a free consultation and talk to Paul about your questions and to find out how to join the program.

How dating works inside big gay family

Buddhist Philosophy

Inside Big Gay Family, you learn how to meditate and how to still the mind so that you can be relaxed as you are meeting and connecting with our members.

The 3 Key Buddhist principles:

Acceptance of others.   When you accept other gay men as they are and remove judgments, you are able to see gay men for who they really are on the inside and connect with them easily.  Often you will be able to see that they are hurt and that they are afraid of lots of things.  Seeing their fear and struggles allows you to come to terms with your fear and struggle.
Surrender quiets down the Ego so that you can witness your emotions and develop a deeper sense of personal intimacy with yourself and others.  In moments when you want it "your way", you take a step back and you surrender.  You do a short meditation and you allow your emotions to calm down.  Surrender is a mental exercise just as it is a spiritual exercise.
Compassion promotes healing and restoration.  By listening compassionately, you offer understanding and acceptance, instead of judgment and scorn.

Buddhism inside Big Gay Family

When sharing photos we ask that members wait at least 30 days to share photos from the moment of first contact.  Surrendering sexual habits and letting go of sexual conditioning is important to the exploration of love and intimacy.
In moments when you want it "your way", you take a step back and you surrender.  You do a short meditation and you allow your emotions to calm down.  Surrender allows you to see the patterns of control that fuel emotions of anxiety and stress.
Every coaching session starts with a 20-minute meditation where you learn how to still the mind,  how to connect with your feelings and how to calm down negative voices and worries. This practice often leads to a major transformation of attitude towards relationships and life.

From Paul Angelo:

Thank you for visiting Big Gay Family.  

Your involvement in the Program matters.  With each Introduction, you are co-creating a new Social Experience where gay men come together in a creative and futuristic way.

With Principles & Structure, we bring order to dating and relationships so that everyone succeeds. 

See you in the Program!
Paul Angelo

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Big Gay Family Social Program?

Big Gay Family started as a matchmaking service in Miami in 2010 and has since evolved into a comprehensive social program providing everything you need to meet relationship-ready men, create strong connections, and develop long-term relationships.

Unlike other services that focus on loneliness, we discovered that the real reason for relationship challenges in gay men is trauma-based. By addressing the root problem, we have created a successful dating methodology that keeps our members together for years. 

As an example, gay men in their 60s and 70s, who meet inside BGF, stay together for years, which is unheard of in popular culture where such groups are often written off as the most challenging.

It is very difficult to fail inside Big Gay Family, where you are given world-class methods that address the complexities of shame, trauma and shadow sexuality.  Without such methods, gay men experience years of toxic relationships and often go back to where they started: frustrated, single and lonely.

By joining Big Gay Family, you will experience a social transformation within just one year that would take 20 years to achieve without the program.

What is different about Big Gay Family?

Inside Big Gay Family, members receive a state-of-the-art dating methodology based on 10+ years of research into trauma, loneliness, and intimacy. All men who join Big Gay Family interact through a step-by-step dating system that guides them from first contact towards a trusting and authentic relationship.

Instead of a random approach, you follow three stages: Bridge, Extensions, & Agreements. Each stage is designed to deepen your connection, prevent mistakes, and cultivate a long-term perspective.

Psychologically speaking, when you meet gay men inside Big Gay Family, you are not treated like a sex object but instead, as a wholesome human being with emotions, intellect, and spirit. This is how our members feel uplifted and emotionally enriched after just a few months of membership.

How many men will I meet inside Big Gay Family?

When you join BGF,  you get 12 introductions per year.  These introductions are to gay men (not bisexual or closeted) who are single (not in open relationships).

Our members are relationship-ready, willing to learn, available to spend time and get to know you.  They are not alcoholics, drug addicts, narcissists or otherwise challenging personalities. 

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