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Meet High Quality Men Without Delays,
Rejections, Worries And Frustrations

Save 100's Of Hours.  Meet High Quality Gay Professionals
Who Are Ready To Connect Right Now And Looking For You.

Eliminate All Dating Frustrations And Disappointments

Experience drama-free, friendly and welcoming space for
life-long gay friendships and relationships.

  • No Grindr, Craigslist or Texting

    Meet gay men who are not scared of phone conversations. Experience human interactions the old-fashioned way without Grindr, Craigslist or texting.

  • No Abandonment Or Neglect

    Enjoy a proven process of meeting new men that takes away all risks of abandonment, neglect and psychological wounding that happens on free dating sites.

  • No Conformism To Sex Or Beauty

    Feel free to be yourself without trying to fit into the stereotypes about sex and beauty. Eliminate the stress from having to become someone else to be liked or loved.

  • No Rejections & Frustrations

    Enjoy a family-like dating process that removes anxieties, frustrations and rejections. Experience emotional connections that flow naturally week after week.

  • No Sex Warriors

    Meet gay men who are open to genuine sharing and interactions without hidden sexual agendas, fantasies and games that invite dishonesty and psychological wounding.

  • No Toxic Friendships

    Meet men who are guided by integrity to honesty and authenticity. Move beyond toxic friendships and experience genuine connections based on truth.

Experience gay friendships and relationships without fear, self-doubt, dishonesty and frustrations.


Best For Gay Men New To Dating Or Dating Again After Ending A Relationship

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  • 3 Introductions
  • Intimacy Builder

Best For Gay Men Who Have Experience And Are Looking To Settle Down

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  • 6 Introductions
  • Intimacy Builder
  • Match Analysis

Best For Gay Men Who Had Difficult Relationships In The Past And May Need Support, Training And Guidance

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  • 9 Introductions
  • Intimacy Builder
  • Match Analysis
  • 3 Coaching Calls

Experience A Family-Style Welcoming Program For
Emotional, Mental And Spiritual Sharing

In my life, the best friendships and relationships came out of experiences of learning and growth.  Those friends and romantic partners who are still in my life came from the space of a spiritual, mental and emotional transformation.  With Big Gay Family, I would like to offer the same to you, so that you create friendships and relationships that last a life-time and transcend the burdens of today's chaotic world.

Don't Struggle Alone

Don’t turn your struggles into suffering. When you struggle alone, life feels like suffering. When you join others, and open up about your challenges, your struggles become the opportunities for personal, professional and spiritual transformation.

Reconnect With Your Strengths

You are more powerful than you think, but your power is lost when you are alone, disconnected and in toxic relationships. Big Gay Family gives you a family-like, friendly and loving space so that you can replenish your mental, emotional and spiritual energies.

Testimonials And Reviews

Gay Matchmaking Since 2010. Over 8,000 Hours Of Experience.

Paul's methodology made a big difference.
- John 

I recommend Paul's services to everyone.
- Omar

Paul will help you save lots of time.
- Frank

Education is critical for gay relationships.
- Duane

Relationships are about body/mind/emotions.
- Eric


Frequently Asked Questions...

Can I upgrade to a higher program later?

Yes, you can upgrade at any time without having to buy another plan.

What's the difference between Big Gay Family and other programs?

The main difference is that Big Gay Family gives you the “Intimacy Builder” so that you can connect deeply and easily with the men you meet.  The “Intimacy Builder” will overcome most barriers to a long-term friendship and relationship.