Big Gay Family


Meet Gay Men Differently

Meet men inside a private program that offers 12 months of structured interactions so that you create the best relationships of your life.

Big Gay Family Social Program

Big Gay Family


Create The best relationships of your life 

Miami Group Coaching Session

Miami 2014

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Welcome to the Big Gay Family Social Program.  Since 2010, we have coached and matched 1,000's of gay men.  With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place: 

You get everything you need to meet gay men and create meaningful relationships with themPlease click below to begin your new relationship.

Big Gay Family


Create The best relationships of your life Inside a private gay social program


Thanks to Big Gay Family introductions, I became more comfortable opening up and talking to other men.  Within three months of membership, I noticed a significant release of tension and stress related to meeting other gay men.  

I started talking to men that I was previously afraid to talk to, and surprise, surprise - I ended up falling in love with a man that literally changed my life.  

Big Gay Family is a life-saver for every gay man who wants the real experience of friendships and relationships.


New York


For the first time in my life I see myself meeting and interacting with gay men in a normal way, without fear of rejection and without fear of judgment.  

I also for the first time in my life see romance as an important first step in meeting my future lover.  

All of this would not be possible if I didn't join Big Gay Family.  I recommend it to every gay man!


Fort Lauderdale


I joined the program doubting Paul's vision and being pessimistic about the gay culture.

Three months into it and I am proven wrong.  Paul created a unique program that cannot be described with headlines and promises - it has to be experienced.  

I hope every gay man can taste what Paul created because it can have a profound effect at how you feel about yourself and other gay men.  

This entire experience has been very eye-opening and I am ready for more introductions and more of everything.

Current Member

San Francisco


It took me a few Introductions to understand everything here and it finally came to me.  Relationships are impossible without structure and consistency.  

I used to think it was the men but now I see that it was the lack of structure that made my relationships go away.

We need structure for our interactions and Paul has created that structure here inside the program.

Meeting men in the program has been amazing and I can't wait for more introductions.

Current Member



Get courses & coaching to guide you every step of the way.


Get access to high-quality men for dating and relationships.


Get world-class tools for personal development and dating.


Get advanced methodology for building gay relationships.

Nancy Clark


Learn how to apply compatibility for lifelong relationships.

Kimberly Thomas


Meet educated gay men who are excited to meet you.

Karen Wright


No one set me aside while growing up and gave me any advice or coaching on how to approach a gay relationship.  

The culture of that time viewed gay relationships as purely sexual temporary encounters first, or second-class relationships at most of people who ultimately were viewed by the public as destine to die from AIDS.  

Paul’s courses and coaching helped me fully understand my past relationship struggles. 

He also gave me tools to make relationship choices today that are right for me, and he gave me a sense of confidence about my ability to develop a healthy gay relationship in the future.  

You owe this kind of coaching to yourself and I urge you to have the courage to give it your full effort.

Daniel Wilson


It’s really important that you get outside of your comfort zone and meet other people. It’s important to be yourself and not