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Meet men in a private program that offers monthly introductions and a dating strategy so that you create the best relationships of your life.

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Meet quality gay men
Enjoy stress-free dating
Welcome To Big Gay Family Social Program

Create Deep, meaningful Connections!

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When you meet gay men inside BGF, you get a minimum of 6 dates with everyone you meet.  You will make more progress in 3 months than in 10 years of meeting gay men on your own!

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Upgrade Your Dating Experience!

Upgrade your dating experience with Art, Music & History!

Say goodbye to boring dates and shallow conversations.  Big Gay Family's Social Curriculum includes a selection of movies that you watch and discuss together during dating so that you feel a deeper connection that includes intimacy, emotions and intellectual conversations. 

Art
History
Spirituality
Music
Art - Picasso
Art - Vincent Van Gogh
History - Eternal Egypt
History - Ancient Greece
Nonduality - The Spiral
Music - Stayin' Alive
Music - Bohemian Rhapsody

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Welcome to the 2024 Edition of BGF!

Create The Best
Relationships Of Your Life!

Learn About World-Class Communication Frameworks
From Bestselling Authors & Teachers

Inside BGF, you get powerful tools for communication so that every date and every experience leads to more intimacy and a stronger connection. 

NonViolent Communication
Winning With People

Meet Quality Gay Men!

Members of Big Gay Family are educated gay professionals seeking meaningful connections. Our members are looking for monogamous relationships. 

Create Life-Long Connections

When you meet gay men inside Big Gay Family, you go through three dating stages. Each stage brings you closer together until you become friends & lovers.

CFC Dating Strategy

Say Goodbye To Loneliness & Pessimism

By joining us, you can say goodbye to pessimism and loneliness, and you can avoid exposure to toxic and narcissistic men that may trigger addictions, anxieties and trauma.

You are worth it to join a private community, rather than taking risks on hookup apps, possibly causing loss of purpose & passion in your life. In some cases, a gay man can lose the ability to focus on his career and health, as a result of a toxic dating experience.

Just one amazing new friend or a loving connection can make a huge impact on how you feel every day. Inside BGF, you have access to more than 12 of those connections. Imagine how different you will feel about your life, your future and your new possibilities!

Begin Your Adventure!

When you meet gay men inside BGF, every step of the dating process is guided to prevent dating mistakes, fear of intimacy and self-sabotage!

Big Gay Family Social Program 2024

Don't Miss Out On Life!

The world of gay dating and relationships can offer a thrilling, yet perilous adventure. Beneath the surface of apps like Grindr, Scruff, and Adam4Adam, there exists a darker, often silenced reality. This reality sees an alarming number of gay men caught in a destructive cycle of sex addiction, substance abuse, and alcoholism, often leading to a point where recovery seems like a distant dream.

The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) reports that LGBTQ+ individuals are over twice as likely to use illicit substances. This stark statistic underscores the magnitude of the crisis. When combined with the grasp of sex addiction, which obscures the path to healthy romantic connections, it's evident that these are not isolated problems. They're a silent epidemic that's permeating our community.

As Seneca writes in his moral essay 'On the Shortness of Life,' "It's not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste much of it. Life is long enough, and it's been given to us in generous measure for accomplishing the greatest things, if the whole of it is well invested." We often fall prey to the allure of fleeting pleasure, encapsulated within these destructive habits, losing sight of the passage of time, and the love and life that pass us by.

Once entrapped, it can seem impossible to break free. Countless gay men find themselves trapped in this relentless cycle, leading to a bleak conclusion: a life devastated by addictions that leech every trace of joy, love, and potential. Seneca further warns, "For life is divided into two parts, what has been and what will be. But the past is certain, while the future is uncertain." Living in a state of addiction, trauma, and post-traumatic stress, perpetuated by continual rejection and sexual objectification, leads to an unawareness of time's passage, resulting in lost opportunities for love and life.

Yet, it's essential to remember: it's never a necessity to endure such experiences. At Big Gay Family, we encourage you to interact with other gay men in a nurturing, respectful way. We offer an environment that nurtures your wholeness and productivity. Like Seneca reminds us, "The part of life we really live is small. For all the rest of existence is not life, but merely time." Don't let addiction and past trauma consume your time and life. Embrace the possibility of love, connection, and a fulfilling life. Time waits for no one. Make the most of yours.

Create Meaning & Longevity

Our vision is to offer you a rich and adventurous social experience so that instead of surface level dating, you create the most meaningful and long-lasting relationships of your life. 

Enjoy Stress-Free Dating!

With over 14 years of experience and hundreds of clients, Big Gay Family (BGF) offers a powerful methodology for relationships for gay men.

Our approach has been refined over a decade, allowing you to relax and enjoy a stress-free social experience.


Love is the foundation of all that is good and beautiful in human experience.

Carl Jung


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About The Founder
Paul Angelo MHA, MBA

I’m Paul Angelo.  And for the past 14 years, I have worked closely with hundreds of gay men, encouraging them to step out of their comfort zones and explore emotional and spiritual connections with others.

Many gay men that I have worked with are currently married, living together and happily coupled.

I created Big Gay Family to give you an alternative to the hookup apps and dating platforms so that you can experience authentic dating that leads to the best relationships of your life.

Copyright 2024 - Angelo International LLC.  All Rights Reserved.

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