Meet Men Inside A Private Gay Social Program.  Go From Sex-Based To Trust-Based Relationships.

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► Spend Holidays Together

► Join Us For Special Events

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Unique and special!

Jeff, Chicago

Big Gay Family is amazing!

Jack, Miami

How Does It Work?

Discover a trust-based approach to lifelong relationships!

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Meet High Quality Gay Professionals

Being Single Is Now Optional

Paul's methodology made a big difference.
- John 

I recommend Paul's services to everyone.
- Omar

Paul will help you save lots of time.
- Frank

Education is critical for gay relationships.
- Duane

Relationships are about body/mind/emotions.
- Eric

Your First 7 Days In The Program

Bring A Social Adventure To Your Life!

  • You Build Your First Relationship Journey

    Inside the program, members “meet” each other through Relationship Journeys.

  • You Get 2 Introductions

    Within a few days of joining the program, you receive your first two introductions to gay men in the program.

  • You Get "The Perfect Husband" Video Training

    To help everyone succeed in the program, you get access to video training.  Your first training is called “Your Perfect Husband”.

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Avoid Years Of Frustrations And Dating Mistakes

Discover new ideas that make your relationships easier!

Program Benefits:

  • Get Monthly Introductions

    Get new introductions every month. You never run out of opportunities to meet new men.

  • Meet Educated Gay Professionals

    Meet men who are capable of giving you the respect and attention that you need.

  • Learn From The Experts

    Get access to world-class training about gay dating and gay relationships.

  • Eliminate Negativity From Dating

    Meet gay men inside a protected and professionally managed gay social program.

  • Connect For Life

    Connect deeply and authentically.  Build foundations for lifelong friendships and relationships.

Testimonials:

Since joining the program I am a different person. Most of the anxieties and struggles with dating are gone. My mind is fresh and I am motivated to work harder.  I haven't seen this level of genuine and honest communication since the 1990's - before the Internet. This program is really awesome.

Mark, New York

After my breakup, I was really skeptical about relationships. Meeting people has become so frustrating that I gave up on dating and relationships.


Then I found out about this program and after a few days of hesitation I joined.  It has been the most fascinating experience of my life. I am finally where I need to be and already feel my heart opening up again.

James, Miami

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Your Self Respect

How much do you respect yourself?

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Upscale Gay Social Program

Meet men inside an authentic and safe social environment.

Program Benefits:

  • Get Monthly Introductions

    Get new introductions every month. You never run out of opportunities to meet new men.

  • Meet Educated Gay Professionals

    Meet men who are capable of giving you the respect and attention that you need.

  • Learn From The Experts

    Get access to world-class training about gay dating and gay relationships.

  • Eliminate Negativity From Dating

    Meet gay men inside a protected and professionally managed gay social program.

  • Connect For Life

    Connect deeply and authentically.  Build foundations for lifelong friendships and relationships.

Meet Paul

Paul came out at the age of 19 and experienced gay relationships and friendships while living in popular gay locations of: Chicago, New York, Fort Lauderdale, Miami and Denver.

Paul met Frank in 2010 and continues to build a strong and authentic relationship with him despite challenges, broken hearts and mistakes. Relationship with Frank has given Paul a playground to test his ideas about sexuality, communication and bonding.

Since we met, our relationship was the biggest catalyst for positive changes in our lives.  Good relationships open doors to new possibilities unlike anything else. This is why we are commited to making this program work for you.

Paul & Frank

By 2019, Paul has spent over 10,000 hours coaching gay professionals. With over 600 publicly available videos on YouTube and social media, Paul is the world’s leader in educating gay men about gay relationships and gay sexuality.

After coaching for many years, Paul put together courses that teach gay men secrets to successful long term relationships.  These courses are available inside the Big Gay Family Social Program.

Wisdom For Gay Professionals

  • Don't Wait Until 65 To Build Your Social Foundation

    Rebuild your social foundation today so that you can feel cared for and loved when you need it most.

  • Spend Time Inside Positive & Healthy Social Environments

    Avoid meeting people in unhealthy social situations.  Meet men inside supportive and respectful social environments.

  • Increase Your Dating & Relationship Skills

    Unlike straight people, gay men never received advice about relationships from their fathers, siblings and teachers. You will need to make up for that with training courses, books and seminars.

Discover Relationship Journeys ™ With Big Gay Family Social Program

Meet Men Inside A Professionally Managed Social Program That Offers An Authentic & Adventurous Social Experience

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